Beloved divine feminine queens of sovereign light, for every time you yearn to be witnessed, held, nurtured, loved & heard by the divine sacred masculine - rather than look out of your own energy morphogenic field of light, go inwards. You are the solution.
That is until you learn the energy you are from the multifaceted aspects of your wholeness. Every time you seek the masculine to be something for yourself in a particular frequency, energy or exchange is ofter because you are operating in your hyper- masculinity.
Meaning your oversoul, future self, god-spark are educating you to not seek comfort outside of self, yet to reflect on gifting this innate synergy of love to yourself. A hyper energy state can cultivate a surge of "needing" "deeply desiring from a trauma bonding space" to be connected to someone.
So if you find yourself wanting to BE in your divine feminine queen energy more, to own more of your totality with more fluidity, suppleness, soulfulness, tenderness, exoticness gift this completely to yourself. When you own the responsibility in managing your entire wellbeing, emotionally, mentally, physically & spiritually, when the divine masculine enters your life it will be to complement your energy signature.
To be fair, the above applies to the beloved masculine, if the beloved masculine wishes to experience more of the innate feminine flow, tune in & turn inwards.
Relationships are definitely profound magi teachers in our lives on how to love another in an intimate depth of being. Yet it always starts in how your own energy is seen, witlessness, held, heard & championed in the absence of another. Who you are to yourself always sets the tone of who you can be to someone outside of yourself.