Connection cannot be created nor can it be forced. Its either present completely unwaveringly for both parties or its not.
No amount of "work" can be done to build connection, rather you can deepen in building a stronger bond with someone across all areas of life, love & emotional intimacy with physicality.
Individuals confuse attachement with connection all the time. You can become subconsciously attached to someone because of insecurities within self that you mask or label as connection through the sharing of trauma, likes, experiences etc. But in truth real connection is fluid, its flows & the energy dynamic is clean between two people. Not to be confused that no growth or expansion wont occur between the dynamic because inevitably will its just not filled with karma or toxic entanglements, its a clean connection of love & growth.
Connection is a deeper resonance, soul contract or soulmate, twin soul not to be confused with twin flame that occurs in pure connection. Both individuals can recognize the connection as being unique in its depth, clarity & joy it gifts to each individual. Its you souls speaking to each other in physical form because they have been in connection in the higher realms aligning the fating of the divine timing in connection with physicality.
If you have ever felt real connection, not to be confused with attachment you know it cant always be articulated. It can't be explained in a logical or sequenced exchange for it just is. The reasoning for this is connection doesn't always line up with the logic of compatibility.
Its just there, you feel this magnetic pull that is your soul guiding you.
You see you can be compatible with loads of people in life, you can have just sexual chemistry with lots of people in life - but you do not FEEL connection with with a bunch of people in life. Real connection is a knowing, a resounding knowing that your soul knows this person from another time, space, dimension & you share a bond like no other.
Connection is a awareness of love that is I water you, you water me - together we water each other as we rise, thrive & grow.
Connections are higher alignment of soul growth, in the deepest presence of love. If you are presented with a connection you'll know & you'll know that its a one in a million exchange no matter how long or how fleeting it is. Its clean, healthy & here to teach you in ways you have not yet basked within.
Come to learn the difference between attachment & connection in your own unions & it will forever change the way you choose to see, feel & show up in life.
Eternally,