Hey Sis, Hey Bro...
No matter how you choose to look at it, it takes great intensional courage to be transparently vulnerable in life, not just in intimate relationships.
Over the years, I find myself counseling individuals over the same universal core wisdom - these such innate languages of love hold NO language barrier, geographical location limitation, or age restriction. When I hear someone share with me that they want emotionally available relationships, friendships & collaborations across all aspects of life, it's vital to know the magic ingredient isn't manifesting someone or even a group of people who are emotionally mature, self-aware, or who also values highly reciprocal connections where transparency, courage & vulnerability are foundational building blocks of said connections.
Like always mirrors like for like.
YOU SEE, the real investment always begins with self.
YAS KINGS & QUEENS - With you!
When you choose to become emotionally available, trauma-informed, self-aware, & develop healthful tools to self-soothe by choosing to self-validate, & self-empower, you begin to radiate a vibrancy that oozes courage, with conviction & standards of how you meet others in connection by how you truly wholly meet yourself.
Alignment is not some "new age buzz word", it's a lifestyle choice, it's a frequency. It's a LOVE language.
It's an intensional self-love/self-care practice that you continuously curiously water, invest in & weed, nurture regardless of what is happening in the world.
No one can throw you off your game, BUT TRULY YOU.
Emotional avoidance is a REAL thing, hiding how you really feel is a thing, denying your TRUE self happens all the time.
Culturally as a global society we have been undervaluing as a global population for far too long how attractive someone who is emotionally able to self-regulate, self-inform, self-inspire & choose to keep growing forward through courage in the power of vulnerability by never SHYING AWAY from emotions, yet rather exploring the intricacies of how they feel.
So when you are busy writing that wish shopping list of all the "THINGS" you are manifesting in the people you want to experience life with, consider emotional availability, maturity & reciprocity. How about putting yourself at the top of the list by learning self-mastery of emotional well-being for yourself.
Dreams are all about potential, but they always need ACTION to make them a reality. The universe will lead you forward, it's up to you to be courageous enough to explore your vulnerability & quit gaslighting yourself.
Emotions have always been & forever will be energy in motion.
How is your energy in motion communicating about you?