Ancient as a life shared between two souls may be, one of the most elusive pursuits in seeking divine partnership is the quest for an idealized experience often projected by external attributes sought to meet a criteria checklist that, on a surface level, is superficial.
All too often, the projection is regurgitated by societal norms, weighted expectations inflated by the ego, and unmet needs of the inner child, teen, and young adult self that were either unmet or never modeled as a way of healthful, sustainable relating.
Embrace the power of self-discovery in your journey towards divine partnership. The most profound connections in life are not found in superficial checklists or cheesy exchanges. They are found within you, even in a partnership. You can date with intentionality, exploring as many individuals as you feel drawn to. Remember, what you seek is also seeking you.
The truth is, you are seeking to understand yourself; you are the one you need to know. Everything in love is an experiential validation of where you have not sought inwards within yourself.
Take a moment to reflect on this. When you truly embrace and validate yourself, each reflection of divine grace experienced with a lover or partner becomes a mirror image of your self-worth. This self-validation is a powerful tool in relationships, as it allows you to recognize your own worth and not rely solely on external validation.
Envision a more fulfilling union—heart, mind, body, and soul—compassionate, driven, playful, nourishing, passionate, creative, electric, harmonic, peaceful, and intimate. These attributes are not just a distant dream; they are first cultivated within yourself. By nurturing these qualities within, you are preparing yourself for a reciprocal, intentional, and sacred connection.
