Doing what is right, to be frank, is not always what comes easy initially.
For some time now, I have been having revisited conversations around growth & isolation with clients. It felt like time to share my perspective here, also.
Isolation & loneliness are not one & the same thing. They are often described as the same energetics, yet the frequency exchange behind them operates entirely differently.
Isolation arrives when your soul is asking you to traverse inwardly to uncover new dynamic aspects of your own soul self, yet also to learn new ways in which to hold your own energetic template, wisdom, creativity, essence & presence in the world in all matter of manners, professionally, personally & in-between the sheets intimately. Isolation is never a form of punishment on any energetic universal level of conscious awareness. But, to the untrained eye, it can have a feeling of reeling in the wake of what was life being turned upended.
Yet, it's a timely engagement of divine ordinance to ensure absolutely everything you have whispered in the depths of your sacred heart, to the community you humbly service, to the lives you touch, to the ones you are merging towards is the energetic void, in you are working through the layers of the psyche of not simply surrendering yet instead learning how to no longer hold on.
To no longer hold on to where you have been creating space for where you are going.
To come into the depth of rootedness, anything soulfully worthwhile must carry the energetic signature of primordial light at the core of its creation, or ultimately it crumbles by ego's defiant will.
The thoughtful exchange is to ask yourself where love is absent in one's life, not in material gain, yet in the humility, softness & subtleness, self-directedness, & self-awareness in all that just is...Isolation does ask for divorcing of the tyrannic ways of old. To understand that to create in the world comes from the unity of the creation with source, god, & primordial light from within. Where divide exists, wholeness is a vision waiting to be told.
Isolation requests you be a willing party to what inherently needs to change for you to go where you are yet to travel. That may look like pausing to reflect on your connections; are they reciprocal, balanced & in harmony. Yet lifestyle habits require more of you, not less. What standards of self require a shake-up? The life seeker that stays in the confinements of the south node (where the soul has been)- held to what was in the past, entraps themselves of where the soul is destined to continue to understand, seek & align in the depths of the deepest heart's inner sanctuary.
So isolation is simply preparation for what's yet to come; it's never punishment. Merely an invitation to reconcile where you are with where you are moving towards.
On the other hand, loneliness is when you feel the lack or loss of something or someone to provide you with energy, connection, experience, or immersion you are not yet willing to fuel within the depths of your being on your own. When you are unfamiliar with being in your own company, loneliness can feel uneasy, & unforgiving. Yet, it is not. Instead, it is guiding you to learn what relationship you have to peace, inner peace so that when you are in the company of others, directly or indirectly, you can KNOW what you are willing to allow to disrupt your peace.
Everything has an energetic exchange; if you do not know what it is to BE in your own energy, how can you teach others to honor the power that is you beyond your verbal cues?
What are you doing for yourself if you constantly seek something or someone to fill your cup of mana, prana, or amrita?
Love meets you at the intersection of presence & unity, knowingly or unknowingly, where you choose to be present for yourself; When you are not in unity with yourself, you are not fully present for yourself.
So when you notice the once favored exchanged, connections, conversations, or environments no longer offer sustainment. It's key to not seek out the inherent flaws that everything is wrong when actually all are falling into alignment for a greater cause of the soul light in which you humanly are.
Without change, my friend, isolation or moments of perceived loneliness translates to your life would remain in a loop. To what you do not wish to be anymore.
The universe hears the whisper of the soul, the heart & everything else in between, even if you do not speak them outwardly in open dialogue.
As with anything in life, to welcome new for the entirety of the eternality of your magnetic essence is to literally learn new ways to hold what is coming in for you by no longer holding on to what is not coming with you.
There is no way around this, my friend. So when you feel isolated or have glimpses of loneliness, always remember these keys you are being given to unlock new ways of BEINGNESS.
In the light of life, you are loved in ways beyond human measure.
Keep lighting the path before you, dear one, as your inherent light has always lit the path you have chosen to walk.
Now is NO different.
The light within is that illumination,
I love you.