Love is never wasted; it's never lost.
On the contrary, it always leaves an imprint. Just as you dont technically have exes, you have moments in time within the life you experienced firsthand the level of love you were meeting yourself within & in mirrored exchange sharing with another.
This energy display is not new, but giving it the sacred container for deep transformational clearing & healing is overdue. I know it can be a hard pill to swallow, to own your part in the equation....but it's time to realize that we cannot keep lower frequency states of being an acceptable measure or co-creating with one another.
This topic has so many rich, in-depth layers, and I invite you to feel how you are aligning with a higher, purposeful love that is worth the wait. As a strong woman, I struggled to soften into the presence of the masculine for many years.
Several years ago I decided to really meet the unresolved trauma still held in my body, limiting beliefs to change the conscious relationship I wanted to have with the masculine—my inner divine masculine to the conscious connection to the Arc Father & everything in between in the omniverse.
I wanted to allow myself to surrender fully, be witnessed, held by a sacred masculine man who would in time be bestowed with the sanctity of my pure heart, curious intellect & sage soul that would want to share my life & essence in a way that I have never given privy to another man ever because this divine man would be equally devoted to his ongoing inner healing, co-creational legacy building in the mirrored state to me in the power of true love.
It's a familiar story of how women struggle to soften, allow & be in the art of healing their relationships to the divine masculine.
Then & only when they are ready can the connection & complete reverence held to them change—starting inwardly, radiating outwardly.
Women experience painful relationships with unhealthy masculine presences in their lives. That all too often make it challenging for the healed man to be given presence within the heart's deepest chambers of light of women to show her not all men are equal. In how they hold sovereign purity for the beloved feminine. This narrative needs to change.
Its changes with us, now - in this eternal now moment. Because the world over, incredible men are rising. Holding vast sacred space containers to transmute the toxic karmic carnage that has occurred & they want to see the narrative change. These divine men are also a beacon of love in the community showing women that it's safe to surrender & rise.
When women are abused, subjected to toxicity emotionally, mentally, physically, sexually, energetically, it creates a great divide in their willingness to surrender. Letting go & allowing a deep level of trust.
As a result, this exchange creates significant barriers in a harsh reality where women disown their bodies. Instead, distrust their innate beautiful feminine essence in all its purity as a defense mechanism to protect themselves from future threats.
Trials & tribulations of deep betrayal - abandonment driven by fear- often leave behind invisible scars. Yet, over the years of working with hundreds of thousands of both men & women
One of the most common questions asked is:
Why do I continue to attract unconscious men into my life that I end up regretting? The short answer is primordial fear of surrendering. Something, someone, an event, a series of events, environments & circumstances have caused you to distrust your past, life, & yourself. Hence, the fear of letting that part of you go is overwhelmingly tricky because you have created an identity around it.
Rightfully so, no matter what the sexual orientation, harsh toxic behavior that occurs is a toxic exchange & needs to be held in that light. But it's not the entirety of your life. Nor your identity or ability to let go & surrender in coming home to yourself in ways of purity, depth & transcended love.
When individuals are entirely ready to GROW & GIFT themselves FREEDOM, LIBERTY NOT TO BE KEPT CAPTIVE to a wounded individual. Who has not walked their healing path of light yet. Then, everything changes for the better.
Let go, let god, surrender to past pains & primal fears that love returns in ways you didn't even know existed in the first instance.
This is no easy path for anyone - does it take courage - completely. But, is it worth it, unwaveringly! It's the unlocking of yourself - you discover you are the key of the master lock all along.
It's the eternal capstone key of true love.
It's the eternal key of pleasure, purpose & passion
Its the eternal key to fulfillment
Its the eternal key of bliss, harmony & tranquility,
Its the eternal key of deep emotional connection
Its the key to potent, powerful spiritual intimacy
It's the eternal key of existence you seek
It's the art of surrender that unlocks your higher love language that you can invite a sacred beloved divine masculine to witness, dance in, share & bask with you as you radiate in this glorious light for yourself.
Until you can surrender completely, forgive yourself & your choices, the past that has bled into the present, having forgiveness to those with whom you shared the trauma - attracting the same men. Repeating the same lessons, pain, sufferance is an invitation to soften, be in your suppleness.
The feminine beauty of your landscape has more power in potency in your suppleness, softness being your complete heart scape. This is where your creative connection to the divine within resides; unlocking it unlocks you in all measures.
For the ready one, she knows it's the only way home. She is aligning with herself to a unified connection to the divine, equal to her divine counterpart.
The greatest love we can embark on in life is never rushed; it's built brick by brick to cultivate a foundation steeped in FAITH, TRUST & LOVE with the connection between the sacred vessel of the divine unification of masculine & feminine synergy.
Beloved brothers of light, when you encounter a fragile woman coming to learn her love language & healing scape - the greatest gift you can ever bestow upon her is to love her through her healing without judgment, expectation, or conditioning. Allow her to become her self-healer.
Allow your love to be the staple that shows her it's SAFE to surrender.
Beloved sisters of light, when you encounter a man coming into his divine masculine sovereignty, I invite you not to cage him in. DO not cast him out or tarnish him for past suffering you have received from unhealed unconscious masculine men - because I assure you; he has walked a path of his pain, suffering in the volatility of unhealthy feminine in equal measure. As he finds himself, he sees you in the reverse you so rightly deserve. Learn to LOVE your fellow brothers of light as you learn to love your inner masculine.
Beloved sisters of light, Beloved brothers of light - real love is always worth the invested healing it gifts. True love is an awakening.
Love asks you to show up & be accounted for; having a sacred union with another is a journey of compassion, acceptance, grace, humility & love knowing that we all carry scars from the past- but this is where they must reside.
We all are imperfectly perfect, but not everyone who comes into your life will cast shadows upon your heart; in time, you will learn the ONE you have been calling for, waiting for, the universe has fated for you - will LOVE you in your wholeness & it is worth the wait.
It's safe to surrender; it's time to soften; your heart is ready to be held in the highest benevolence, so allow yourself to TRUST. NO one is broken; we are all finding our way home to ourselves & each other in the depths of golden light, cultivating heaven on earth.