Reposting this wisdom, witness yourself how you invite others to live with you & share in the life of design you cultivate.
We attract people who match our emotional, mental, and spiritual healing levels in all relationships. This reveals an opportunity for inner growth through connection. The extent of this growth depends on our commitment to understanding our role in relationships, for ourselves, and for our partners, friends, and family.
At some point in life, you will recognize that you have done too much in a relationship, most of the heavy lifting. The heavy lift can show up in various ways. You'll realize how much of yourself you poured into the shared space, the friendship, and the relationship, whether it is personal, professional, or intimate. When you recognize that you have been waiting for someone to rise to the same energy and effort, you've been addicted to someone's potential - not who they really are, and who they consistently show you they are in the present.
Over the years in client work, dismantling lower-dimensional layers to access higher-dimensional embodiment through multidimensionality has been a large part of disbanding all the discord and false beliefs around connections. Let people be who they are without creating narratives in a savior complex to wait for them to change just for you.
It's a hard truth to swallow at times. There is a radical self-truth in recognizing when you fall in love with someone's potential over who they actually are. Spiritual people struggle with this the most because as they awaken to multidimensional awareness, they can see timelines where someone may have shifted in awareness and are living this expression in connection.
Embracing your own worth is more than just setting personal standards; it's about finding peace in your own company, cherishing your own space, respecting your own light, safeguarding your own peace, and realizing that you don't need to be tied to anything that doesn't reciprocate the connection.
Yes, relationships take two to nourish, but when you realize that you have been the one who feeds the flames, the best step forward is to create space between you and said connection.
So, you don't fall into the trap of loving only someone's potential but rather love who they are entirely in front of you as they show themselves to be. You will quickly identify if that's aligned, enough, or misaligned and not for you.
Never wait on someone's potential, especially romantically. All humans have potential, but not everyone will live their self-actualized potential.
The love you seek is seeking you, yet the wholesome, soulful love you know exists. You don't ever need to settle with someone's potential - because you convince yourself otherwise.
Keep going, and honor the love you are by being unwaveringly willing to live life according to the compass of your heart and soul—passionately, regardless of whether you are partnered or not.
Remember that the "why" behind your desire for such a union is your future self showing you the standard of self-preservation to learn from all the relationships you have held, so you can clearly receive the union fated for you into being.
Your future self is already living this life.
Loving you forward in wholeness,