The more you choose yourself, the more you choose to keep choosing yourself the more you unveil into embodiment your authentic soul expression, the less attractive you will be to others.
The more scattered you are in your energetics, the less developed you are in your wholeness emotionally, mentally, physically, & spiritually; by the way, the more your attractions will reflect this. You will be constantly drawn in all different directions for different reasons, - which reflects all lower chakra & chakra complexes' subconscious karmic bending, if you will.
Yet as you unveil more of your heart's highest divine temperance, heart radiance by way of allowing the highest emanations of your avatar self to fully unify within your human incarnate journey as you keep choosing where the heart soul song moves you forward, the fewer options you will feel connected with at a level of congruency to your totality of fully awaken beingness.
Being drawn to someone's fractal aspects of who they are no longer piques your interest. You only seek a holistic, aligned, mutually reciprocal, healthful connectivity that honors their entirety as much as you keep yours - good, indifferent & all the verberations in between.
Beautifully imperfect.
You may find admirers who see your beauty or are attracted to what is reflected to them in how you move through the world.
Divine reflection is not always about you learning a lesson; sometimes, you are the lesson in simply being your most authentic self in showing what is divinely aligned & possible for all - not just merely some.
Regarding sexual orientation, by divine will, sacred masculine, sacred feminine - those holding the field to connect holistically congruently & who know who they are by doing the inner self-sovereign soul work seek the same.
Living, learning & growing their highest divine nature
These connections are woven by the purity of vulnerability, not drenched in trauma bonding. Leading with the embodied heart is leading with a wise choice.
They prioritize healthy unions; it's such a high value that they know God's timing is divine, & divine timing is reflected by choosing the self because who you are to self always sets the tone in how you are available, receptive & divinely aligned to anything in life especially a sacred divine lover, beloved in holy union.